How Modern Dating Became Such a Dumpster Fire (ft. Sadia Khan)

Let's be honest: the modern dating landscape is a shit show. From declining marriage rates and rising infidelity to the nightmare of using dating apps—it's brutal out there. With all these supposedly "easy" ways to meet new people, why are the people who want long-term, stable relationships so fed up with the dating world? I invited dating and relationships coach Sadia Khan on the pod to discuss how the skills we use to excel in modern dating often sabotage long-term happiness. Sadia brings a refreshing, thought-provoking perspective to the conversation that will help you navigate the complexities of today's dating world. We dive into the role of self-esteem in successful relationships, the pitfalls of modern dating advice, and the skewed expectations shaped by social media, dating apps, and pornography. Enjoy. CHAPTERS Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction: When Dating Advice Became a Dumpster Fire 00:04:36 Modern Dating Is Training You for Divorce 00:05:33 Social Media, Porn, and the Extrinsic Values Trap 00:10:42 Why Dating Apps Prime You for the Wrong Things 00:17:46 The Humanization Problem: When Men See Women as Vaginas 00:14:20 Why Opposite-Gender Friendships Are Essential 00:28:12…